promise?

I herby promise that some day i will surely be myself and be happy with it and not try to be others.It still make me wonder is it just that iam having a urge to "copy" others or is it just human nature.after hearing to all the crap from our elders,teachers we still do the same old lame mistake rather than not do it reason?.we feel our what our harmones says is right they are all dumb.wise guy(experienced loser):"hey dont go there its dangerous".ME(loser to be):*what a dumb ass just fuck off*.yea thats right harmones make us do it ya lets all blame the rest on the poor harmones afterall we do have to blame some one right.after all this there is just one question is it the way of telling stuff wrong?the parents trying to prevent harm to thier children???this reminds me a story where a Mom doesnt prevent her child from aprroching the fire so it learns the hard way.the hard way yea???? but lifes not that simple dear the hard way stuff has to pay a price after all we have only 1 life so cant loose any thing much.but does it mean we also need to utilize our life and have lot of fun?? after all its your life you see and you will get only 1 life.why is life so complicated why? why wasent there a simple button where can click and download a life of our own if any one finds such a site let me know please